Hi, I am Anca

Nice to meet you :)

I am a woman, a mother, a daughter, a wife, a friend, and a coach. I have many roles, but ultimately, I am just a human being trying to make sense of the world.

I was born and raised in Romania, but I have called The Netherlands my home since 2012. My journey was far from straightforward, and it was these twists and turns that led me to where I am today. I’m excited to share a piece of it with you.

Several years ago, becoming a mother for the first time deeply shook my reality and sense of self. I had spent 30 years building an identity and a life that I thought I knew and cherished. Suddenly, I found myself living a reality that I didn’t recognise, and grieving the loss of life as I knew it.

The weight of my new responsibilities and the drastic routine changes filled me with self-doubt and confusion. I loved my child dearly, but couldn’t shake the feelings of guilt and shame over my sense of loss. This inner conflict was so intense that I decided to seek help. This was the turning point in my story.

Sharing my feelings of loss and confusion with a professional, and receiving support from family and friends, was incredibly liberating. They provided a safe space for me to express my emotions and fears without judgment. This journey of self-discovery helped me understand why this transformation was so challenging and what I needed to learn about myself.

Facing my deepest fears and emotions taught me the importance of vulnerability and the strength that comes from it. Through this process, I discovered my life’s passion: connecting with people, listening to their stories, and supporting them in their own journeys. This realisation led me to become a coach.

Today, I embrace motherhood and life with an open heart and a deeper understanding of the importance of accepting help and sharing our stories. I have learned that it’s okay to struggle and that asking for support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I hope it inspires you to embrace your own moments of vulnerability and see them as opportunities for growth.

Feel free to reach out to me if you would like to connect, share your own challenges and have a guiding companion in your journey to your authentic self.